“Eating and self care aren’t things you need to earn. You deserve food, rest, and happiness no matter who you are or what your past is.”
“I need to be alone. I need to ponder my shame and my despair in seclusion; I need the sunshine and the paving stones of the streets without companions, without conversation, face to face with myself, with only the music of my heart for company.”
do you ever step back & reevaluate your life
& all the harmful shit you internalized
like concepts of virginity, beauty, healthy relationships, sexual attraction, mental health, & what “being successful” actually entails?
& you realized how much healthier you’d be right now if someone actually fuckin’ talked to you about this toxic shit instead of throwing you into a perpetual pit of self-loathing that you have to claw your way out of?
the first question got me
“Of all the people I’ve lost,
I miss myself the most.”
You have today. You can make it rich and you can fill it with meaning.
No matter what else you may have or not have, you have today. You have the priceless opportunity to live with purpose, passion, joy and love.”
“If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.”
“Love is warming.
Please take a step back from
anything called “love” that’s leaving you cold.”